How do I tell my friend that I slept with her fiancé?

I didn’t know they were together when it happened; I met him online and we had a one-night stand. I found out the next week that he was the guy she was engaged to. What should I do? — L.K., New York

It’s a lot cheaper to cancel a wedding than go through a divorce. Your friend may never speak to you again, but you should tell her, especially if you’re in the bridal party. When you tell her, be prepared with evidence — like his online cheating profile and the messages he sent — and some good running shoes in case she goes berserk.

But know this: you didn’t do anything wrong. There’s no reason you can’t hook up with people from the Internet.

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