My guy’s beard irritates my skin when we kiss or when he goes down on me.

I don’t want him to shave because his beard is sexy but I’ve tried everything to make it less painful. Help! — J.P., Tennessee

I know what you’re going through. First the face irritation and then the inevitable chin zit from your smooch sesh.

Ouch!

But he should definitely keep the beard. I find beards and long stubble to be easier on my face than a frequently shaved face.

Have him condition his beard to keep it soft, and rub over-the-counter cortisone cream on your chin before bed to keep the irritation at bay.

This column doesn’t constitute medical or professional advice. Always consult a qualified health care professional for your medical, psychological, or relationship problems.