I have been happily married to a much younger girl who earns a great deal more money than I do.

She is a successful TV, film and stage actress, arrogant and sexy. She is also highly intelligent. When she gets “rave” notices for a performance, signs a new contract, or receives the usual extravagant praise from her director, she has me put her in line by teaching her humility. I recognize the signs.

We then go through a “master-slave” relationship until she is humbled sufficiently. This takes the form of her being completely enchained or bound with leather thongs hand and foot. If in chains, with leather collar, belt and cuffs on wrists and ankles she is given sufficient room to kneel before me. If bound with leather thongs, she must lie or kneel naked and defenseless on the floor. I think that, psychologically, nudity is important on the part of the subject partner for absolute mastery.

Then, booted and spurred, I start on her correction. The spurs are silver and have small spiked wheels. These are applied to her flanks and buttocks if crouching or kneeling. If standing, she is bound in front of a mirror and a light cat o’ nine tails is applied to her back with some severity.

When she has been extremely arrogant and refuses to obey my commands, her punishment is more severe. She is held by a chain to my left hand which is attached to a leather collar round her neck. In my right hand I hold a double thonged riding crop. With this, I thrash her quite severely around the waist. When she sinks on her knees in supplication, this signifies she has had enough, and the punishment ends. Within twelve hours any welts or marks have vanished, and we find great mutual satisfaction in this method and subsequent caresses.

I must stress that brutality as such is not involved. The whips or cat must be wielded expertly to give sufficient pain and no more. The main object is to show her that masculinity is the dominant factor. The chains and leather are only symbols of submission. Until submission is complete and shown by her lips on my erect penis, neither of us can be satisfied.

It is not a regular method of arousing sex on either one of our parts, merely one which shows her that, despite her money, beauty and power over other men, this cuts no ice with me.

It took nearly a year of patient training on my part to convince her this was the only way we could be completely happy. She has now agreed with this form of treatment and is content to let me determine when its application is necessary, willingly submitting to the whip.

Naturally, we wouldn’t dream of partner swapping, and I feel sure other readers of Forum who have been successful in applying the natural enforcing laws of male domination will agree that their women, once treated this way, stay to heel as they should!