My husband and I have been married for 10 years and run a successful business. However, I’ve found working with my spouse can sometimes put a damper on our sex life. I travel often to attend trade shows, while Jim stays in town dealing with the day-to-day operations. We definitely love each other, and we don’t want to split up. But we both have needs. So for a few years now, we’ve had an agreement. We’re each allowed to safely and discreetly scratch our itches. Neither one of us is particularly jealous. I know Jim has enjoyed a few one-night stands and has some galpals stashed her and there, and I’ve also had some extramarital fun on the road — with men and women.

Jim generally keeps his business to himself. But I can’t help wondering who he’s nailed. I recently snooped a... Read More