Through seven years of marriage, my wife, Paula, and I have experienced every form of sexual pleasure a man and woman can share. Paula is a terrific lover with a body and libido to match, and we continue to grow and meet each other’s sexual needs every day. Although “vanilla” sex is still our primary regimen, our favorite variation is dominance and submission. Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac, and nothing turns me on more than lighting Paula’s fires and then enjoying her performance a sex slave.

In bed, Paula is naturally submissive, and I exploit this characteristic to its fullest. Once a month, sometimes twice, we take a walk on the wild side and act out a dominance/submission scenario. I maintain sexual power and control during the scene, primarily through mental techniques. Although bondage and... Read More