Katie and I have been having slumber parties since we were 19, and they’re every bit as tawdry as our boy-friends think… not that we’d ever tell them.

Though, if they read this letter, I guess they’ll find out.

It started when we met during our sophomore year of college. We had a women’s studies class together — go figure — yet neither one of us had many female friends. We developed an easy friendship, and when we ended up sharing a hotel room on a class trip, we grew even closer. I mean, really close. We kissed for the first time that night, and by the end of the trip, we were sharing a bed.

We fooled around a lot that first weekend, but it wasn’t until we got back to school and the privacy of my apartment that we had sex. Though we both identified as... Read More