I have a strange problem. I last too long in bed.

Most guys worry about premature ejaculation, but I have extremely delayed orgasms. Whenever I’m with a woman, she usually comes a few times before me, and sometimes she wants to call it quits before I have a chance to climax. What can I do to get off faster? — R.T., Washington

You’re not alone. There’s been a massive rise in porn-related performance issues among young men, and it all comes down to how their sexual patterns were first established. What happens during puberty shapes our brains for the rest of our lives. Our brains are open to everything — they’re big, experience-absorbing sponges — and as we grow into adulthood, the brain cuts off little-used neural pathways.

During that time, we’re supposed... Read More