When my boyfriend and I broke up for a while, I had great sex with someone new. Now that we’re back together, how do I get my guy to give me that kind of mind-blowing sex? — K.R., New Jersey

No two people fuck the same, because no two people are the same, and no two relationships are the same. So I’m sorry, but your man won’t fuck you like your fling did.

But I bet part of the reason your fling was so much fun was because he was a new, casual partner. You probably felt freer to express yourself, try new things and explore each other’s body.

When we’re in long-term relationships, we tend to fall into routines. There’s a reason there are so many articles and books on how to spice up your sex life. Without work, sex with a long-term partner can become rather... Read More