The girl I’m seeing has a serious foot fetish, and I’d like to understand it better.

What is it about feet that’s so appealing? She hasn’t pressed me on getting too crazy yet, but how can I indulge her without getting too far out of my comfort zone? — P.L., Alabama

Every foot fetishist is different. Regardless of their gender, some like men’s feet, some like women’s feet, some like stockings or socks or bare feet. Or dirty socks and then bare feet. There are fetishists who prefer clean feet, dirty feet, stinky feet, sucking on toes, having their toes sucked — You name it, someone likes it.

Since she hasn’t pressed you to participate but has communicated her desires, she seems very respectful of your boundaries. Ask her what she’s into and then... Read More