Jorge and I have been husband and wife for 25 years. When friends ask our secret to a happy marriage, I tell them Jorge has always encouraged me and my desires. Some would call ours a kinky relationship, but there’s really nothing wild about our day-to-day lives — unless you count Jorge’s love of voyeurism.

Jorge and I are in our early 50s, and he’s still as handsome as he was in our senior year of college when we first met. I work from home but stay in shape with regular yoga classes. I’m still as toned as I was when I first made his heart flutter 30 years ago. Yet, one of the advantages of age is we’ve become so much more confident about who we are and what we want — in and out of the bedroom.

As we’d approached our milestone anniversary, Jorge joined me in the hot... Read More