My boyfriend has kids, and he recently invited me to spend the weekend with them.

At night, after they were in bed, he tried to initiate sex, but I was uncomfortable doing it with the kids down the hall. How do I get over this fear? — T.V., Tennessee

It’s going to take some time to get used to, especially if you’ve never been with someone who has kids before. Start by having sex at his house when the kids aren’t there. Not only are you getting accustomed to being intimate in that environment, but you can use this opportunity to road test the bed and fix any joints or springs that may squeak or knock. You’ll feel more comfortable with the quiet and so will everyone else.

With kids in the house you’ll probably be confined to having sex in the bedroom, so make... Read More