I’ve been happily married for five years and enjoy a “normal,” healthy sex life with my husband.

He’s not very adventurous, however. He doesn’t enjoy anything new, and in spite of my efforts to excite him with fellatio, he doesn’t enjoy either giving or receiving oral sex. I enjoy intercourse with him and experience mild orgasms through penetration, but nothing compares to the pleasure I receive from masturbating.

I’d like to share my masturbation techniques with you. …

I usually begin my long, private sessions by dressing in some open-front blouse and high heels, something I feel really sexy in. I fantasize like crazy. Then I use an unpeeled banana like a penis. After my juices are flowing, I “go down” on the banana. This, combined with the fantasizing, drives me crazy. After I’ve sucked it... Read More