“Enjoy two cocks, three tongues, and totally uninhibited fucking? If you do, let’s get together and enjoy each other.”

That was the ad. It appeared along with my Los Angeles area postbox address and a photo of my midsection, with my cock standing hard and beckoning. I ran it in a popular West Coast swingers’ publication. I placed it with some trepidation, not knowing what kind of people might answer.

I’d seen the magazine in my neighborhood adult bookstore, and in my intimate hours alone at home, with the book in one hand and my cock in the other, I had fantasized over the many enticing ads and photos. I knew that the kinds of people I really wanted to meet were also reading it, and that those people are nearly impossible to find through the usual social channels. I knew I... Read More