The first step was persuading his downhearted wife that at 45 she was at the peak of her sexual desirability. From there it took on a life of its own —

When my wife hit 45, it was like her world had fallen out from under her. All of a sudden Suzanne was down on herself, saying how her best years were behind her and she was over the hill.

The thing is, it was all nonsense! She has always been attractive, and always got and still gets the attention of guys, but she’s always had this mental blind spot to it. I assured her she was still very desirable and had only gotten better with age, but she called me a liar and said that since I’m her husband I was only being nice. And the more I insisted, the more depressed she got.

It became so bad, it started affecting our marriage. That was when... Read More