If you take away one thing from this letter, it should be that I love my wife.

Rachel and I have been married 25 years, and I’m writing this now in a hotel in Las Vegas. We’ve just had the most amazing experience of our marriage — and all I did was watch.

Since the beginning of our relationship, I’ve known Rachel is bi-curious, but she’d never so much as touched another woman sexually. It was something she’d admitted to me while we were dating. When we first started having sex, we would talk openly about her being with another woman, and the thought would excite us so much we’d come like gangbusters. I loved the idea of watching her with another lady, but she was too shy to try it. So the notion became a kind of sexy joke between us. We’d watch a beauty pageant, and... Read More