Thad and I spent last summer vacationing in Florida.

On our second evening we went out for drinks. At the bar we met another couple, Mike and Isabel, a very fun and attractive pair. They told us they headed a married-couples-only swingers’ club, and asked if we would like to come to a pool party they were having Saturday night.

After ten years of marriage and three kids, Thad and I still have a wonderful sex life. And while we like to explore to keep it fresh and exciting, our explorations had always been just between us. Mike and Isabel’s invitation to a swinger party was indeed tempting, but we didn’t know if this was a direction we wanted to explore. When Mike and Isabel then asked us to come just as observers, we figured there was no harm in watching.

When we arrived at Mike and... Read More