Jack and I started swinging after fantasizing about it a lot when we read the swingers’ contact magazines that Jack brought home. We’d look at the snapshots and imagine what sex might be like with the different couples. We even answered a few of the ads.

We described ourselves as a modern, adventurous couple eager to expand our sexual horizons with attractive, pleasure-oriented individuals. Though still very much in love after nine years of marriage, Jack and I craved variety in our love life, the kind of erotic stimulation that can only be found in the arms of a new partner. Swinging seemed to be the answer.

Then one night we got a phone call from one of the couples we had written to, Jeffrey and Lorraine. They explained to us about the “lifestyle,” as they called it, telling us that we... Read More