They say your thirties are your sexual prime if you’re a woman. Well, I never really understood this until I had my first orgasm at thirty — two.

I’ve never had problems attracting men (happens every morning on my two — block hike past the scaffolds of whistling construction workers in New York), but usually it takes a while before I relax with someone, and I’m relatively inexperienced. I didn’t mess around with a single guy in high school and didn’t lose my virginity until I was nineteen.

When I finally had sex, my nineteen — year — old brain was functioning in an amorous pink haze, telling me I’d be with this guy forever. Nope. And eventually I discovered there was a lot more to sex than missionary position and getting lost in your lover’s eyes.... Read More