My boyfriend likes me to fondle his balls.

I make sure to do it a lot during oral and 69, but how can I add it to intercourse? — K.B., Montana

It’s really easy to fondle someone’s balls during intercourse, particularly in the missionary position. Lift your hips up a little and slide one of your hands under your bottom toward your partner’s undercarriage. The lift in your hips will also force his penis deeper into your vagina and harder against your G-spot, so it’s a win-win. In doggie-style it’s really easy to reach between your legs to fondle his balls as they slap against your clit, as well.

Since he’s so focused on his balls, you might like to try one of those stretchy, disposable, vibrating cockrings. Instead of just putting it at the base of his penis, stretch it around his whole package and put the vibrator behind his balls. I predict explosive orgasms!

This column doesn’t constitute medical or professional advice. Always consult a qualified health care professional for your medical, psychological, or relationship problems.