My wife, Margaret, and I had a good sex life up until last year, when she turned forty. It’s me, not my wife, who seems to have lost interest.

I am basically a tit man. My wife has very large breasts that, even at forty, are incredibly firm. They have not sagged at all since I met her twenty years ago. They have huge areolae and long, thick nipples that get as hard as rocks when she is aroused. In addition, her breasts are very sensitive, and even when I play with them or suck on them, she nearly has an orgasm. My favorite sexual activity is tit-fucking, and my wife’s gorgeous, firm bosom has for years been the greatest target I could ever imagine for my erections.

The problem is that Margaret has gotten the foolish idea into her head that her breasts, which are in perfect condition, aren’t what they used to be, and that she can no longer go around wearing tight tops. Instead she has taken to wearing extremely loose blouses. These baggy, maternity-style tops turn me off, and she knows it! She won’t even wear a simple button-front blouse, because she’s afraid her thirty-eight-inch tits will stretch it so much the buttons will pop off. And sweaters or T-shirts are completely out. On rare occasions, when the kids have gone to bed and she wants to be laid in the worst way, she will change into something more “busty,” with one of her old, sexy bras underneath. Trouble is, by this time, after seeing her in baggy tops all evening, I’ve completely lost the mood.

I’ve told her hundreds of times about this turn-off but she says, “I’m not going to parade around with my boobs bouncing and sticking out a mile, and people laughing and staring.” Or, “Nobody wants to look at a middle-age, sagging broad pretending to be a perky twenty-year-old.” I don’t expect her to wear sexy bras and tops all the time, but as I said, she doesn’t even wear normal shirts anymore. I’ll admit she’s well-endowed, but why does she try to hide that? I don’t know how she became convinced that her chest is suddenly no longer sexy. To top it off, the other day she complained about her sexual needs, when I’ve told her time and time again that it’s her oversize blouses that turn me off! Xaviera, why is she doing this and what can I do to make her stop hiding her beautiful breasts?