It has taken fifteen years for me to get UJ my wife, who is a nurse, to come around to anal sex, which she now enjoys.

Her thinking was that I thought her natural equipment was not enough, but this was not the case at all. I felt and still feel that it’s all good — oral, anal, or conventional. Slowly but surely, with a little tender loving care, I introduced my wife to the joys of anal sex.

By using a well-lubricated finger and some strokes with my tongue, little by little my wife began to respond. I’d rub her a while, then insert my finger slowly up to the first joint. I’d leave it there while I licked her clitoris until she exploded.

In time, I was able to insert an entire finger into her. I found that by slowly inserting the finger and pausing every now and then, her anal muscles would relax, allowing fuller insertion. We did this from time to time in the sixty-nine position.

After about half an hour in the sixty-nine position, I would start to rub her with my finger, then switch to my tongue. When she became hot enough, I’d insert my finger in her anus and leave it there. She would clamp down on my cock, sucking it like it was for the last time.

It took another three or four months of patient care before I could slowly insert my penis all the way in her. I left it up to her as to how far she wanted it to go in. As she got used to it, she would push it out with her rectum and move her ass back and forth. Since forward thrusting seemed to give her discomfort, I concentrated on back strokes, which were very pleasing to us both.

We engaged in anal sex with her usually on her knees, butt up, once or twice a week for about a year. One night I suggested we try it in a face-to-face position.

“What a difference that is,” my wife exclaimed after we had finished.

She can take my entire penis and gets off like never before.

She likes to be able to flip her clitoris and feel my body close to hers when I am in her. Now she has a full orgasm, clamps both her vagina and her anus down at the same time, and we both come together. She says that when she is really hot, there is no pain involved, just one orgasm after another.

One last word: while anal sex is great, we have not let it take the place of other sexual pleasures. Variety is always important, especially when it comes to sex.