My boyfriend, who’s in the Army, came home from Afghanistan in a wheelchair.

He can still have sex, but I’m not sure what will give him the most pleasure. Do you have any suggestions? — C.Y., Colorado

I’m so proud of you for standing by your man and accepting his new condition. That says a lot about your character and the depth of your love.

Paraplegics can and do enjoy healthy sex lives. Your man may not be able to use his lower half as much as before, but he’s going to have great upper body strength to support you in girl-on-top positions and himself in missionary variations.

Work on your girl-on-top positions, maybe do some extra squats at the gym so you have more thigh strength and stability. A fun position is one I call The Frogger: straddle your partner... Leer Más