I hope I don’t sound absurd, but I want to know if I am becoming a sadist.

I am sure that my wife is a true masochist, but she never uses that word, insisting that she just likes to be tied up and tormented. Early in our marriage, five years ago, she kidded me into tying her up one night and using a paddle; we have long since graduated to rougher stuff.

She is twenty-eight now (I’m thirty) and she flatly refuses to have sex unless it is accompanied by, or follows, bondage and discipline. In my saner moments I know this is not the way marriage should be, and I try to discuss the topic with her, but she puts me off. Then, when she asks me to put her in bondage, my resolve melts away and I follow her suggestions.

Perhaps you’ll realize the extent of her obsession if I describe two of her... Leer Más