Don Juan. Casanova. Wilt Chamberlain. God knows I’m not quite part of that sexually overachieving roster. I can’t imagine anyone paying hard-earned cash to read my bedroom memoirs. Who’d think I’d ever feel compelled to write to Penthouse Letters?

That said, I’m no virgin. In my early 40s now, I’ve had an active sex life. I was married once, and I’ve had a few other long-term relationships. I’ve experimented with Kama Sutra positions and filmed myself getting busy with FWBs. I’ve attended sex parties, swingers clubs, and even a gangbang. Often, I was on the sidelines at such events, but I was there!

But if you’d told me 10 years ago that I’d wind up sharing a bed with my ex-wife and her current husband, I’d have laughed my ass off.