After 10 years of marriage and three years of living together, how good can sex be with the same woman?

Better than great — it’s fantastic. Ellen was 34 and I was 54 when we married. One must know that a relationship with a woman 20 years younger than her husband would require some special getting used to. The old pecker didn’t always stand at attention on request. Being open and honest made all the difference in our relationship. It has kept our interest in one another lively and exciting for 13 years.

Due to the age difference, I was concerned about being able to keep sex interesting for Ellen, so I suggested that we try swinging to provide her with a hard cock from time to time under exciting conditions. We developed a good relationship with another couple. He had a thick, seven-inch cock that was a joy to watch when he pleased Ellen. In time, both Ellen and Beth discovered that they were bisexual, so I got the added thrill of watching the girls get it on.

Our friends moved on after a while, but we met many couples interested in swinging. This made for more fucking than I could handle, so I developed an educated tongue to keep my partners pleased. We visited swingers’ clubs in New York and Florida. Ellen used to play a joke on the guys in the hot tub, telling them not to stay in too long as their cocks would shrink after a few years. You would be surprised at how many would jump out of the tub, missing the greatest handjob ever, one of Ellen’s many talents.

After a few years, we found that we didn’t need a lot of different cocks and pussies to keep things exciting. We have one couple that we see about three times a year. The rest of the time, I’m quite satisfied to have all of that natural blonde, 38D, sweet pussy to myself. By experimenting, we have found that my soft touch, gentle massages, educated tongue and loving passion provide her with the complete sexual fulfillment that she needs.

To older men with young wives, I suggest giving her the opportunity to swing for a few years. You had your flings years ago. Give her the same opportunity and you’ll be rewarded. Our marriage is stronger and more complete. We’re always looking for ways to please our mate. We don’t waste time on petty jealousies. I have found that pleasing my wife is more fun and exciting than pretending to be macho. The soft touch and gentle twists of the tongue make sex a bit of heaven for the giver and the receiver.