Through seven years of marriage, my wife, Paula, and I have experienced every form of sexual pleasure a man and woman can share. Paula is a terrific lover with a body and libido to match, and we continue to grow and meet each other’s sexual needs every day. Although “vanilla” sex is still our primary regimen, our favorite variation is dominance and submission. Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac, and nothing turns me on more than lighting Paula’s fires and then enjoying her performance a sex slave.

In bed, Paula is naturally submissive, and I exploit this characteristic to its fullest. Once a month, sometimes twice, we take a walk on the wild side and act out a dominance/submission scenario. I maintain sexual power and control during the scene, primarily through mental techniques. Although bondage and spankings frequently enter the picture, I am never physically abusive, nor do I threaten or intimidate Paula in any way.

My wife frequently finds herself kneeling on the bed with her sexy ass raised high in the air for a firm, bare-assed spanking, which leaves her ass with a sexy pink glow. Primarily, however, my control is maintained through the day or evening by Paula’s need for orgasm, which I deny until it suits my purposes. My cock is her reward for a thorough and rigorous performance.

To enforce my authority on a daily basis, I see to it that Paula maintains a submissive sexual posture in a variety of ways. I require her to keep her pubic hair very closely and neatly trimmed; she is required to wear lingerie and have her nipples rouged anytime she enters the bedroom for lovemaking; and I frequently insist that she wear a small chain-link collar around her neck. These subtleties enforce my dominant role and her sexual submission. Another of my favorites is to require Paula to wear a G-string under her skirts or dresses. I also insist that she wear quarter-cup bras, which display her nipples through the fabric of her blouse when we go out in public.

Paula gives her best performances when I have taken the time to completely set the scene and mood. Preparing the scene in such a way that my wife fully understands her role and exactly what is expected of her is the essential ingredient for success. Some of these techniques, I am sure, will be useful to other men who are seeking ways to bring out their wives’ submissive natures.

In a typical scenario, Paula must first bathe and shower me and then provide me with a complete body massage. This intimate service impacts her visually as well as physically and builds her anticipation and body heat. Then she must dress in whatever I choose, usually something very minimal, like a silk camisole with no panties, which leaves her ass and pussy completely exposed and vulnerable.

One of my favorite combinations is a skimpy white lace G-string which barely covers her pussy, satin gloves, a sheer negligee and spike heels. After dressing, Paula must present herself for a very exacting inspection. If she passes inspection, I lock her chain-link collar around her neck or add a satin garter before proceeding with the evening.

From this point I have many options available to me. Sometimes I tie Paula’s hands behind her back while she is positioned on her knees and make her lick and suck my nipples and cock for a period of time. This enforces her position as “pleasure slave.” Other times I position Paula on her knees, tying her legs to the posts at the foot of the bed and her outstretched arms to the posts at the head of the bed. I blindfold her and then slowly work a full anal plug deep into her asshole, until she is moaning and writhing in pleasure.

To enhance the effect, I will frequently attach a pair of mild nipple clamps to her breasts. Sometimes I will even tie the anal plug in place and leave her completely helpless while I go make a drink and watch an x-rated video with the volume up just loud enough for her to hear.

Invariably, I return to our bedroom to find my wife on fire with lust. The anal plug buried in her up tilted bottom, the clamps pinching her nipples, the blindfold, her vulnerable position and the sounds of passion emanating from the video will have combined to build within her an almost demonic desire to be vigorously fucked. On these occasions, Paula will beg to be taken anally, and it is with great delight that I slowly, teasingly, remove the anal plug from her stretched anus and replace it with my hard cock. A spanking, however, precedes the penetration of her ass.

Although I know what her answer will be, I give Paula the choice of my hand or the paddle. In a tremulous voice she pleads for the paddle and a moment later I am striking the taut cheeks of her up tilted bottom, turning them a flaming red as she cries out with joy. The feel of my cock pressing into her ass triggers the first of many orgasms for her.

I began last night’s session by ordering Paula to perform as a stripper, but with a twist. As well as stripping and dancing, I ordered my wife to masturbate in whatever fashion I directed. During the show I did not allow Paula to touch me in any way and allowed her to touch herself only as I instructed. When the dancing was over and she had stripped nude, I ordered Paula to play with her pussy. Then, giving her a jar of KY Jelly and a thick vibrator, I ordered Paula to fuck herself in the ass, slowly and sensually, to the rhythm of the music.

To increase her arousal even more, I dimmed the lights, sat down beside her and began whispering obscenities in her ear. This really got her juices going, and her moans and gyrations encouraged me to continue talking dirty to her as she fucked herself in the ass. As Ravel’s Bolero played softly in the background, I said, “My pretty little slut would do anything to get cock now, wouldn’t she?” Paula moaned and whimpered in agreement.

Keeping my tone low, I teased her a bit more with comments like “If I had another woman here right now, I’d make you suck her breasts and eat her cunt before I’d fuck you.” Then I ordered Paula to play with her own breasts and nipples while I watched. Immediately my wife began clutching and fondling her sexy breasts, pulling, stretching and twisting her nipples in a passionate frenzy. Pushing her passion further, I said, “Since I don’t have another woman here, I guess I’ll just have to make you suck your own breasts.” Let me tell you, seeing your wife completely nude and thoroughly in heat is one very hot sight!

Next, I ordered Paula to lubricate her fingers. She plunged her fingers into her dripping pussy and while I held her wrist in place, she rapidly moved her fingers about, completely soaking them. Then, on my instructions, Paula spread her juices all over my chest, paying particular attention to my nipples. Then, very slowly, she licked and sucked them clean.

Since Paula had performed so well, it was time for her reward. I ordered her onto the bed, where she immediately assumed the doggy position. Stroking her buttocks very softly, I gently spread her cheeks and entered her pussy from behind. A shrill moan of pleasure escaped her lips as I sank my engorged cock deep inside her.

I pumped firmly and deeply into her hot, wet cunt with slow, even strokes. Erupting like a volcano. I pumped what felt like a gallon of hot white lava into her overflowing and steamy cunt. But, remembering her mouth again, I withdrew immediately instead of driving her to orgasm. I ordered Paula to lick my cock clean and then suck it back to erection. She willingly complied, and then I penetrated her cunt again, this time driving her to orgasms of such frenzy that I was sure the neighbors could hear her screams of ecstasy.

We completed this particular scene with Paula once again cleaning my cock with her tongue. The evening concluded with the two of us, lovers as always, wrapped in each other’s arms as we drifted off to a thoroughly restful night’s sleep.

A final word of advice: Don’t be afraid to bring out your woman’s sexually submissive nature. Even in this age of gender equality, your wife will love you for it.