Most everybody thinks their sex life is complicated. Maybe their lover doesn’t completely fulfil their needs, or they can’t let go of an ex’s memory? Or maybe they’re a bisexual woman, like I am, and their situation is especially complex.

I wanted a monogamous relationship. I really liked having a steady lover. Problem was, whenever I had a boyfriend, I wanted the taste of pussy on my tongue. But when I was with a girlfriend, even one perfect for me emotionally and physically, I couldn’t help but crave hard cock and the muscular feel of a man. Yet I envied people in committed relationships. I wanted it both ways — literally.

One night I went out to a party put on by the company I worked for. I was currently between lovers, feeling a little dejected because of my peculiar... Read More