Laura and I finally had that talk. The one where if you’re comfortable with your new lover, and it’s a friendly relationship, you can open up and tell the other some of your secrets.

What she wanted to know was this: Did I have any sexual fantasies I might want to act out with her?

It’s the kind of question I’d guess most men dream about hearing from their girlfriends. Laura wasn’t saying she’d do anything under the sun, but she was perfectly happy to listen to whatever I said.

I was actually quite touched by the overture, even as it caught me off guard. I didn’t really know what to say. Sex with her was already great. I hadn’t been pining away for any particular act. Laura was plenty adventurous for me.

I hemmed and hawed some, then I decided... Read More