Judging from the letters in Variations, it seems that quite a few spanking lovers are into role-playing, the woman’s bottom-warming occurring within a carefully crafted scenario. Some couples even use costumes to enhance the effect. Other couples are stimulated by the idea of spanking as discipline, with the woman deliberately provoking her man so that he’ll take the desired action.

Vincent and I are simply two mature, sexually sophisticated adults who find spanking a wickedly exciting prelude to sexual intercourse. We don’t have to spend time “creating the mood” 6r pretending to be something we’re not. All I have to do is quietly ask for a spanking, or have my husband say, even casually over dinner, “How long has it been since I’ve warmed your pretty bottom?” and the... Read More