Sex when we were married was terrible.

It felt like we had been incompatible from the start. She was never willing to experiment in the slightest — she wouldn’t even suck my dick. I resented that she wouldn’t even try, so I stopped trying to please her. I don’t even know why we kept having sex when we were both so clearly not into it, but we did the obligatory deed fairly regularly, right up until we decided to divorce.

Since we didn’t have kids and weren’t rich, there wasn’t much to fight over when we split, but we fought nonetheless. By the time we signed the paperwork dissolving our marriage, I hoped never to see her again.

I managed not to for about a year, but we don’t live in a big city and neither of us had moved far, so it was bound to happen... Read More