My wife, Rachel, and I have an unusual marriage.

To start off with, she’s half my age. I’m in my 40s and she’s just out of college. Both our families raised eyebrows, but we’re very happy. Secondly, before we got married we each had many partners. Of course, given my age, I’ve had more, but when we first became intimate we compared sexual histories. To some people, having a great number of sexual partners is a deal-breaker, but for us it was a turn-on.

Furthermore, Rachel and I have both been in orgies. That seems like a quaint term, something you associate with the 70s and places like Plato’s Retreat, but they do happen. I ran with a bunch of guys who were so debauched that we kind of shared girlfriends. We’d all go out together, and then come home and throw pillows on the... Read More