I met Lana 12 years ago, when I was working in her office as a temp, and we stayed in touch after I moved on. Lana came over for coffee, a movie, sometimes dinner. I enjoyed her company, and her zest for life.

When we met, she was engaged but in a dilemma. She explained to me that she was afraid of hurting her future husband because of her desire to be with women. She had told him about this, and he had said he didn’t mind, that he was willing to accept her as she was.

Then came the day when Lana confessed to me that the woman she was most interested in being with was me. I was floored. It wasn’t as if I had enticed her or led her on in any way. After she made her confession she begged me not to be upset. Actually I was flattered, and more than a little curious.

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