We were dating in college the first time Julie sent me a nude selfie. I liked her fine, but we were both seeing other people as well, not yet serious about relationships. I liked acting like a young stud on campus.

But it was a time of discovery. You don’t just learn from classes in school, you learn about yourself as an adult, as a sexual being. In college you might find out you’re really into threeways, or you like being tied up and spanked.

I didn’t consider myself especially kinky. Vanilla sex with women was fine with me. But the day Julie sent me that candid photo of herself changed my life.

I was studying in my room when my phone buzzed with an incoming text. I took a look. And froze. There was Julie, somewhere outdoors with trees behind her. Her hiking shorts were down to her knees... Read More